Divorce & Emotional Adjustments Coach

Hey, I’m Barb Hay, Emotional Adjustments Coach.

Specialising in Divorce, Financial & Coercive abuse, Expatriate challenges, with a little touch of therapeutic art if you fancy trying that too.

From globe-trotting adventurer to mother, survivor, and human mentor, my journey has been anything but ordinary. In my twenties, I backpacked the world, soaking up cultures and climbing mountains—literally. Life then took me through unimaginable loss, domestic abuse, and eventually a long-haul divorce after 24 years of marriage. Each chapter, no matter how painful, has shaped the coach I am today.

I’ve walked the path of heartbreak, deafness, grief, abuse and reinvention—and now, I use those experiences to help others navigate their own life transitions.

Whether you’re facing the uncertainty of separation, the chaos of court, needing to move back to your home country, or just need someone who truly “gets it,” I’m here for you.

My mission is to guide you through emotional overwhelm, help you reclaim your identity, boost your confidence, and empower you to find clarity and calm in the chaos. Together, we’ll shift pain into perspective, and rebuild your sense of control—one step at a time.

You’re not alone in this. Let’s make your next chapter one of healing, strength, personal growth and self-discovery.

 

Barb Hay

Packages

First Steps

Your Time Begins Now
Hey there! Are you ready to take the first steps towards a life-changing transformation?

Transformation

"Make today so awesome, yesterday gets jealous!"
Educating yourself during coaching, will increase your knowledge and understanding of how to navigate significant life changes.

Flourishing

Positive Waves & Fruitful Passions.
Accomplish a deserving and fulfilling future, with growth, confidence and progression.

Testimonials

  • Brilliant session. 

    Barb really put me at ease and enabled me to talk about some

    quite emotional issues. She was amazing and has helped massively. 

    Suzanne
  • Yes, I struggle to stay on the path, but I am safe in the knowledge that I can 

    go back to your words, which help me get back on track.  

    I can not tell you the strength I get even though I have struggled externally and internally. 

    Thank you for your words of guidance and reassurance. 

    You've always been able to read me, and I am forever grateful that you 'get me'.

    MT
  • Thank you Barb, 

    you have such a lovely way about you.

    So calm and understanding. 

    ZA